build the bundled onetbb as a shared library on windows #277

Job	Run time
downstream (windows-11-arm, release)	5m 36s
downstream (windows-latest, release)	2m 54s
downstream (windows-latest, 4.2)	4m 47s
windows-latest (release)	6m 47s
ubuntu-24.04-arm (release)	2m 32s
macOS-latest (release)	3m 24s
ubuntu-latest (release)	3m 50s
windows-11-arm (release)	8m 17s
windows-latest (4.2)	7m 43s
	45m 50s

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