require cmake on all platforms; tbb is always enabled #279

Job	Run time
downstream (windows-latest, release)	2m 45s
macOS-latest (release)	3m 15s
downstream (windows-latest, 4.2)	5m 37s
downstream (windows-11-arm, release)	6m 6s
ubuntu-latest (release)	3m 29s
windows-11-arm (release)	8m 6s
ubuntu-24.04-arm (release)	2m 32s
windows-latest (release)	6m 51s
windows-latest (4.2)	7m 50s
	46m 31s

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