require cmake on all platforms; tbb is always enabled (#275) #280

Job	Run time
downstream (windows-11-arm, release)	5m 57s
windows-latest (4.2)	8m 30s
downstream (windows-latest, release)	3m 1s
downstream (windows-latest, 4.2)	4m 35s
windows-latest (release)	6m 47s
ubuntu-latest (release)	3m 22s
ubuntu-24.04-arm (release)	2m 27s
macOS-latest (release)	3m 10s
windows-11-arm (release)	8m 28s
	46m 17s

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