tools: validate commit list as part of lint-release-commit

[aduh95]

When updating manually a release proposal, it can be easy to have the commit list in the CHANGELOG and the actual list of commits in the proposal no longer in sync.
It will also double check that none of the commits being released comes from a PR with the dont-land-onvXX.x, in case the label was added after the commit was already backported.
I'm also switching to using make release-only which contains the checks we were doing and more.

You can test it locally while the v23.5.0 proposal is open:

#!/bin/bash

set -e
set -o pipefail

GITHUB_REPOSITORY=nodejs/node
MAJOR=22
GITHUB_SHA=7d849ab5e3ff707512c6d7e7031428dafe44a5aa # b0bd12384eca49202d2dd2b4971ee66d7f62f4a0
CHANGELOG_PATH="doc/changelogs/CHANGELOG_V${MAJOR}.md"

curl -L -o "$CHANGELOG_PATH" "https://github.com/nodejs/node/raw/$GITHUB_SHA/$CHANGELOG_PATH"

gh api \
  -H "Accept: application/vnd.github+json" \
  -H "X-GitHub-Api-Version: 2022-11-28" \
  --jq '.commits.[] | { smallSha: .sha[0:10] } + (.commit.message|capture("^(?<title>.+)\n\n(.*\n)*PR-URL: (?<prURL>.+)\n"))' \
  "/repos/${GITHUB_REPOSITORY}/compare/v${MAJOR}.x...$GITHUB_SHA" --paginate \
| node tools/actions/lint-release-proposal-commit-list.mjs "$CHANGELOG_PATH" "$GITHUB_SHA" \
| while IFS= read -r PR_URL; do
  LABEL="dont-land-on-v${MAJOR}.x" gh pr view \
    --json labels,url \
    --jq 'if (.labels|map(.name==env.LABEL)|any) then error("\(.url) has the \(env.LABEL) label, forbidding it to be in this release proposal") end' \
    "$PR_URL" > /dev/null
done