[Pipe] Fix batch and async resource lifecycle leaks

[Caideyipi]

Summary

• Make Pipe batch memory resizing non-blocking and roll back partially constructed batches when allocation fails.
• Detach asynchronous batches atomically and release batch-owned memory after event ownership moves to handlers or retry queues.
• Make async callbacks and retry bookkeeping idempotent to prevent duplicate queue entries and event reference leaks.
• Clean up TsFile parser reservations, readers, buffers, public resources, and temporary batch files on close and failure paths.
• Add regression coverage for memory pressure, parser close races, retry lifecycle, batch detachment, and TsFile cleanup.

Tests

• mvn compile -pl iotdb-core/datanode -DskipTests
• mvn test -pl iotdb-core/datanode -Dtest=PipeMemoryManagerResizeTest,TsFileInsertionEventParserTest,PipeSinkTest,PipeTabletEventTsFileBatchTest,PipeTransferBatchReqBuilderTest,PipeTransferTrackableHandlerTest,PipeTransferTsFileHandlerCleanupTest,IoTDBDataRegionAsyncSinkTest -DfailIfNoTests=false
• mvn test-compile -pl iotdb-core/datanode -P with-zh-locale -DskipTests

The selected test suite ran 70 tests with 0 failures and 3 skipped.